Mothers are all stubborn creature, no? Well, then mine is! I don't understand, why does she always like to do some irksome comparison btwn me and someone else. " I never see JieJie going this kind of things, why must you?" " Why they are capable of doing this and you can't? " All those WHY. Then she should be comparing me with those monsters daughter & praise me for goodness sake, but she never. & hey, my sister has no life doesn't mean I can't have one. It will be daft to remonstrate because she will stick to her own opinion, or i can say stuck to her own opinion. I'm not asking much, I'v self-control too, altho I always reached home later than what I promised but it nvr after 12. It just that she doesn't believe me. She say once I'm out, I never bothered to call back home. Maybe she's worried about me, so I'd made the effort to call back. But soon I dreaded the calling-back-home "activities". Instead of asking you are you having fun? She'll say what time you're coming back and those come back now type of conversation. So am i calling her to inform her that I'm fine outside or dialing back to let her tell me it's time to go home? Bugger. Its damn paiseh having to rush home and your friends stopped their fun as well to go home with you & took cab to help you reached home on time. It's irking, maybe you all reckoned that I'm being preposterous but I'm feeling this way. Even my dad says" Other than going to school, you always go out " hey, it's compulsory to go to school! So weekdays I'm supposed to go school and weekend I'm supposed to rot @ home? & whenever the school end late, they'll say why isit so late? They thought I'm the director of TP, but no I'm not, PARENTs! And when the PMS catastrophic strikes, blimey she'll NAG, Nag And Ground. & when you're trying to say out your view, you're being mark as being defiance. So both my sister and I'd the same mindset. We'll let her rant all her anger out and we just keep our mouth shut, what's the point of fighting back because even though she know she's wrong, she never apologize & that's my mother. Father always asked us to give in to her because she's having heart problems. She can never grasp that, asking is much of a respect, it isn't an authority.